Drawing of two similar looking men in the rain. One with rain boots, the other with an umbrella. Each looking at what the other have. Illustration by Frits Ahlefeldt

Seeing what we miss

What we focus on is closely connected to our needs

Often we focus more on what other people have

Drawn story by Frits Ahlefeldt. FritsAhlefeldt.com

The old saying “The grass is greener on the other side” is one way of describing what many experience. That we often see what we miss, more than what we have.

Drawing of two similar looking men in the rain. One with rain boots, the other with an umbrella. Each looking at what the other have. Illustration by Frits Ahlefeldt
Seeing more what we have not, than what we have

Keywords: museum of psychology, needs, perspectives, viewpoint, priority, rain, hikers, umbrella, rain boots, mud, stars